This Letter Is To You

      We all have those days where we just feel like we aren’t good enough. We aren’t smart enough, pretty enough, talkative enough, tall enough, outgoing enough; the list goes on and on. However, none of this is true. We are constantly comparing ourselves to other people and seeing what they have that we don’t.

But why do this when all it leads to is you being unhappy with yourself?

            Trust me, I know its not easy but once you realize this it makes it a bit more simple. Everyone compares themselves to other people. This means that there are people out there who compare themselves to you. As much as you don’t believe it, there are people who look at you and want something you have. And yes, there are people who look at you and think otherwise, but screw those people.

            You shouldn’t let anyone bring you down, no one regardless of how close they are to you. You are the only person who can be the judge of yourself. This is your life and you can live it anyway you want to. And you know what, yes you are going to have bad days and you’re just going to want to lay in bed and never move, and there are going to be nights where you sit on the bathroom floor and can’t stop crying, but there are also going to be amazing days. There are going to be days where you just want to drive to nowhere, blasting music and feeling the wind in your hair, and days where you laugh at everything and anything because you are just so completely happy. Life is full of good moments and bad moments because without the bad you wouldn't be able to appreciate the good. So enjoy everyday and if there is someone trying to tell you how you should live your life, ignore them and be yourself because life is too short to pay attention to what others think of you. Don't let irrelevant people bring you down.

             I know its hard and you can't help but hold on to the negative things someone says about you, but all the negativity isn't worth it, it won't matter in a few years. You have gone through and will go through so much more. Think of it this way:

            You have survived up to this point in your life. You have survived heartbreak, traumas, devastation, loss, lies, all the phases you have been through and more. You have been through a lot, but here you are, still standing strong. You’re incredible and full of so much potential. You have so much left to do in your life but you also have so much time to figure it all out, listen to your heart and don't let anyones words or actions influence your opinion of you.

So take a deep breathe, remember what got you here and hang on because better things are coming your way.☼ ☺ ☆ ♡